Saturday, July 23, 2016

Homelessness


He couldn’t calm down. He was on the verge of sobbing, but he was talking so fast, his tears couldn’t catch up. His tics overwhelmed his face and then he couldn’t catch his breath. I looked him in the eyes and said his name over and over again…then I began saying Jesus’ name over and over again.  There was some recognition in his eyes and he said, “I don’t think I can do this much longer,” and then the tears came in force.

He had been homeless for about 9 months and he’d never been homeless before. He was scared to death, and he didn’t understand the street rules and kept ticking people off. Isaiah 58, In His service put him in a motel for a week. He started to become his old self after two days of solid sleeping.  But this is not enough…

She is addicted to meth. So many times she comes to me so high that she babbles and cries and asks for help and then would disappear for weeks.  She, so far, keeps coming back and never remembers the last conversation we had.  The last time I saw her she was sober and back with her old man, who beats her when they’re high. She quoted scripture and said all of the things that we Christians want to hear from lost sinners. But, there is still no light in her eyes.  We gave her the Bible she requested. We give her backpacks, hygienes, Gatorade, snacks and socks over and over again because when she’s high everything gets stolen or she wanders off and leaves everything behind. But this is not enough…

He was a hard hat guy. He climbed poles to fix transformers and could maneuver just about everything made by Caterpillar. He was renting a room in a house and all he did was work and relax. The perfect life to him.  Then he got hurt. He had no insurance, no savings and he needed rehab time. The doctor couldn’t release him to do the work he’s always done. He couldn’t wrap his mind around doing another kind of work. He’s on the streets. His camp is an abandoned house.  He’s befriended a woman with schizophrenia and he wants us to help her more than he wants help himself. The heat is really getting to him, “Can you get so hot that your brains melt?” We give him Quik Trip gift cards because he loves their sandwiches. We give him T-shirts and shorts and shoes and lots of Jalapeno crackers, those are his favorite. But this is not enough…

They’ve been meth addicts for years. They recently met Jesus and they’re trying to stay clean. They both have kids that have been taken by DHS. He’s been thrown in jail numerous times for not paying his fines. Financially with all of the fines and fees and living expenses, they are starting to sink and those who are working closely with them are praying they don’t relapse. “I mean I know God is real but it’s getting worse. We’ll never get ahead it’s like the more we pay the further behind we get.”  Isaiah 58, In His service is helping them with rent so they can try to find a way through this mess.  But it is not enough…

He was a professional. He was working a good job, had some of the finer things of life.  He was living life on his terms and all was well. Then he had a car wreck. Without insurance he has thousands of dollars of medical bills. He has virtually no support system.  He hurts almost all of the time from his injuries, depression is overtaking him. His car was totaled and he’s living in a shelter. He is starving for hope, but he told us he works hard at getting through the day, he can’t believe this has happened to him. He considers suicide often, “I’m almost out of hope. “ We listen and provide small gifts of love and encouragement. But it is not enough…

Homelessness. It tries to consume Moms and Dads, Grandmas, Children, Laborers, Professionals, literally every walk of life, and sometimes it does, it pushes them to the brink. It is no respecter of age; there are homeless babies, toddlers, teens, and seniors in their 80’s. They each have a story, a life before homelessness. They pray for a life after being homeless. They don’t want to stay homeless but just surviving takes all of their energy and the system is one big obstacle that works against them getting back to self-sufficiency. What each of them need is stable, sustainable, secure housing.

Isaiah 58, In His service loves on so many homeless people. We are always humbled by their stories. Homeless people are some of the most resilient people we have ever met. So many have a sense of humor that catches us by surprise. They are the most appreciative people for the simplest of gifts.  We are so blessed for our calling to befriend, love and help these amazing people.

Housing. Our fervent prayer is for Isaiah 58, In His service to be a ministry that provides housing. Not just a motel for a week or two. Not pay rent for a month or two. But, to provide housing for as long as it is takes. We need emergency housing. We need a safe place for Moms and kids, when they’re new to town or their house burns down. We need a place for those who are injured to recuperate. We need a place for those who have no one, to die with dignity and be surrounded by love. We need a place for those who are sinking in debt to stay for free so they can pay their bills and get ahead. We need a place for those who are discharged from a psychiatric facility to stay and be helped with medications and consistency. We need a safe place for folks to stay while they are waiting to get into rehab. 

Last Friday deni received a call from First Baptist Jenks. They had leftover hot dogs and sandwiches and asked if we could give them away. ABSOLUTELY!! It was an incredibly large container full of food!! We laid hands on the bag and prayed for the journey ahead, asking God to lead us to those who needed loving on the most. And to the streets we went…

Just around the corner was David. He was sitting in the shade and smiled as we pulled over. He stood up and shook deni’s hand as we introduced ourselves. He said he has been homeless for awhile, he stays on the streets and stays by himself. A Bible was beside him and he commented. “You can’t be on the streets without Jesus.” He took some sandwiches and told us he had been praying for where he could go to get something to eat.

Douglas was sitting on his suitcase at the bus stop, Melissa was high and lost, Johnny was in the enclosed doorway of a church, and Alan thought deni was going to run over him. He was on his bike and was waving us on. We slowed and yelled, “Hungry?” He slammed on his brakes and leaned into the car window, “You did say hungry!” He said he was on his way to fly a sign for him and his friends, because they hadn’t eaten all day. So, we loaded him up with sandwiches, “Hallelujah! Jesus! Jesus! Jesus! Praise Jesus!!”

Then there was the couple drinking beer with nothing to eat. The two guys sitting outside smoking, thrilled to get a bite to eat. Jarrod was passed out on a sidewalk. We woke him up and he had been bleeding but we couldn’t figure out from where. He kept reaching for a hand to shake; so we shook hands quite a few times. He refused to go to the hospital. He sat up and was trying to figure out where he was. He took a couple of sandwiches and said he was headed somewhere, but wasn’t sure where. We drove by later, but he was gone.

We drove over to a church where a lot of homeless guys hang out. One was yelling and preaching to no one in particular, a few were flat on their backs, another one was loudly reminding us he was hungry too. The front man was Dennis. He said he lost his sister and Dad recently and he was trying to take care, “Of all these misfits.” We gave him a few bags of sandwiches and he said he would be sure everyone got something to eat.  "I don’t know why you’re out here tonite but God bless you.”

How cool is this? One church’s leftovers became a feast to a group of guys and gals who needed someone to know they were alive and they matter.  Isaiah 58, In His service blesses those God brings alongside us. Sometimes it’s in big ways where we wipe out a debt and in little acts of kindness like Jalapeno crackers, bus tokens or Gatorade. We are so thankful that God uses us to shine a little hope on so many who are desperate for something to look forward to. But each day the needs get bigger and their lives are complicated and sometimes it takes everything we have to help someone.  As we face each crisis we are reminded, “God’s got this!” Time and time and time again He provides the moment it is needed.

Last Sunday we prayed for those in our school system, many by name. Thank you to those who sent names of folks to pray for. Tomorrow morning we’re going to pray for our homeless community and those who work in ministries and agencies loving on the homeless, like Night Light Tulsa, the Day Center, Salvation Army, Iron Gate, Indian Health Care Resource Center, Mental Health Association and John 3:16 and many more.  We’ll be under the Maybelle Bridge where Night Light Tulsa ministers every Thursday evening. Know that you are welcome to pray with us!

We also ask that you join us in prayer to provide shelter.  YouAreSpecial.net  has purchased a house and they are praying for God’s guidance. Join YouAreSpecial.net as they seek the Father. Please pray for us that we will be obedient in our role in supporting YouAreSpecial.net in providing housing.

“Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke? Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter – when you see the naked, to clothe him, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood? Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the Lord will be your rear guard. Then you will call, and the Lord will answer; you will cry for help, and He will say: Here am I. If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness, and your night will become like the noonday. The Lord will guide you always; He will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail. Your people will rebuild the ancient ruins and will raise up the age-old foundations; you will be called Repairer of Broken Walls, Restorer of Streets with Dwellings.” Isaiah 58: 6-12

Mother Teresa said, “We can cure physical diseases with medicine, but the only cure for loneliness, despair and hopelessness is love. There are many in the world who are dying for a piece of bread, but there are many more dying for a little love.”

We will continue to love on folks, provide the tangible and advocate for them.  We hope you will continue to love with us!!  Thank you for sacrificing to give gifts in kind, financial gifts and gifts of prayer! We are touching lives and sharing Jesus and meeting needs because you are giving first.  You are greatly needed and greatly appreciated!

Know that you are prayed for.

In His service, deni

 

Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Now is the Time...


Now is the Time…

How many of us didn’t go to church because of the rain. It’s just too hard to get the kids up, it’s so easy to stay in bed, we can miss just this once…oh wait, didn’t we say that the last three Sundays??

How many sat in church and nodded our heads in agreement with the pastor while we looked at our watch? How many slouched in the seat and played a game on our phones? How many went into the sanctuary late because we wanted just one more cup of coffee or we wanted to connect with our buddy about meeting at the gym? We will miss church to go to the gym, to the lake or just to stay home, “It’s my only day off.”

Church shouldn’t be routine. We shouldn’t have the morning activities memorized. It shouldn’t be just a place of socialization, it shouldn’t be ordinary and plain, it shouldn’t be comfortable and easy going. We shouldn’t expect things to happen the same every week.

What happened to the excitement of going to church? Has attending Sunday school and church ever been something we’ve looked forward to, something we couldn’t wait to do? Where’s the anticipation of meeting the living God?

Someone said, “A relationship with God that doesn’t change your life, is no relationship at all.” When’s the last time we were transformed, changed, renewed in our relationship with Jesus?

When was the last time Jesus was first in our lives…has He ever been?

Are we complacent and flat in our walk through life? Are we so de-sensitized by the tragedies in life that we push them aside and try to convince ourselves nothing like that will happen to us?

A pick-up truck on the Muskogee Turnpike rammed a car from behind sending it off of the highway, the truck sped on ahead. A man attempted to kidnap a 13 year old girl who was with her mother in a grocery store. An 18 year old man told his step-son to quit jumping on the bed, when the little boy didn’t stop; the man shot him in the back of the head and killed him.

Dear Jesus…

A man walked into a club with a rifle and a handgun and killed 49 people and injured 53. In a matter of minutes lives ended and hundreds of family members’ lives were forever altered.  None of them thought that could happen to them…

Is your heart breaking? Are you shedding tears? Are you crying out to the Father?  Or are you thinking, “Oh that’s horrible,” and then you continue living life the same way….

It. Will.Never. Happen.To.Me.

This is a wake-up call. All of those tragedies took place in the United States – in Oklahoma. We cannot call ourselves Christ followers if we do nothing. People are lost, they are miserable, they are full of hate and they are all around us. We cannot risk doing nothing, we must act. “Whoever claims to live in Him must walk as Jesus did.” 1 John 1:6.

But, we’re living as if we’ll live forever. We’re living for ourselves. Isn’t the real reason we don’t prioritize church is because we really don’t think it makes a big difference? It just isn’t important enough. Or maybe we think just showing up will give us brownie points with Jesus.

Because you know God, really, I’ve got this…

If we go to church on Sunday and continue sinning the same sins during the week, why are we going? Do we drink to excess? Are we married but flirting with a co-worker? Are our stories about the weekend filled with lies? How many curse words fill our mouths? How many least of these do we ignore? How much are we spending at the casino? How much porn are we watching?

We live like the world revolves around us and we live like Pharisees, we claim we know Jesus but we only do the simple, the easy, the comfortable. Sometimes just driving to church is just too much effort…

Another truck driver, kidnapper, murderer is in the making. There is too much at stake to live life in a fog; to follow the status quo. We need to step up and start paying attention. We need to blanket Tulsa with prayer and love. Because “it’ could happen here, to you, to me…

It’s time to fall on our faces in repentance and ask God to fill us with Excitement, Joy, Courage, Fearlessness, Passion, Empathy and the Desire to do His will,

No.Matter.What.

Luke 10 is a life group at First Baptist Church. We have been having class for the past 5-1/2 years. We started the class because we saw a need. We wanted to be “the” life group that anyone could come to and feel welcome. Outcast, misfit, mentally ill, drug addict, alcoholic, poor, retired, business owner, teenager, manager, doctor – a place to encounter the living God.  We were blessed to see God in action through us as we reached out to many folks over the years. Visitors came and left but we had a core group of folks who have been a part of the class for the entire time. We did as God called us, but now it’s time to do the harder work..

Sunday, July 10th is our last class. We can’t wait on them to come to us, anymore…we are going to go out to them…

To end Luke 10 we have been doing a book study of Barefoot Church by Brandon Hatmaker. Brandon was talking with a couple that was “done” with church. The wife said, “The church needs to care more about the poor! They need to fight injustice! They need to help the orphan and widow in their distress! They need to do what they say they’re about!” Brandon was a pastor of a mega-church and he said, ”We as church leaders tell our people to go. We tell them to be good news.  And we assume they do. We assume they know how. While we’ve been charged to `equip the saints’ for works of service, the brutal truth is that most of us have reduced our expectations of `serving’ to a once-a-month tour of duty as an usher or greeter. We’ve settled for serving ourselves and serving as an event rather than serving those in need and living a new way of life that Jesus has called us to…There’s got to be more to church than this.”

So Brandon and his wife Jen left the mega church and planted a church, Austin New Church.  The book offers testimonies of how they surrendered all to Christ and left the pews and moved into the communities, “Creating service-based, missional communities that end up being surprisingly as much about evangelism, discipleship, and real-life transformation as they are about serving others…more than anything, this book is about a Christ-centered gospel. By His example and through His teaching, my hope is that we are continuously being challenged to be good news to a lost, broken, and dying world. That God would open our eyes more and more each day to the needs of our community and world. That we would see it as the church’s responsibility to lead the charge in making a difference, not just on our own church campus, but also in our neighborhoods, our workplaces, our city, our nation, and our world.”

This is our fervent prayer. Let our churches start teaching their congregations about the poor; let us learn about resources and needs and gaps. Then let us step into those gaps with love. Let us love by going out to the lost and the poor and the miserable and the lonely. Let us ask the Father to set our hearts on fire for Him again. To wake up on Sunday morning excited and full of anticipation of what the Holy Spirit will do! We will look forward to going to Sunday school and church. Nothing will keep us from going because Jesus is moving and we are starving to be a part of His movement. Not just on Sundays but every day of the week.

Don’t you miss Him? Look around at this world…now is the time to surrender all.

Today was the kick off of “Putting Feet to Our Prayers!” Some of us joined hearts at Woodward Park this morning. We put feet to our prayers. While we were at the park, YouAreSpecial.net gathered on a hill in Sapulpa and prayed at the same time. There is power in prayer. Maybe some of you prayed at home with us. Maybe you didn’t come because well, it is July 4th and well I didn’t even know where Woodward Park was, the car needed gas, well we’re going to a Fireworks show at 9:30pm tonite. That’s okay, you have more opportunities ahead…

Join Isaiah 58, In His service on Sunday, July 17th at 7am at the Education Service Center at 3027 S. New Haven. We will pray for our teachers, students, support folks, school board, superintendent, etc. We’ll finish in time for you to get to church and Sunday school, filled with the Hope of Jesus!

Then on following Sundays we will meet wherever God leads us! We will pray in agreement and pray for restoration and healing and hope!!! I will send out an email the week before so you will know where we’ll meet. If you can’t come you can pray in agreement with us as we pray for our city leaders, churches, nonprofits, first responders, retailers, colleges, etc. We will pray for those we have taken for granted, for those we’ve ignored, for those we disagree with.

Our prayer is that you can come and pray and restore your relationship with Him and go to Sunday school and church totally in love with Him again. Maybe you will be so stoked for Jesus; you’ll go back to your church and ask about doing more for the poor. Maybe loving on the least of these will once again be a priority.

I’m praying for radical and reckless commitment to serving the poor and that one church will risk everything for the least of these. Tulsa New Church!?

God is waiting on us. We live like our God is small and unimaginative. He’s waiting on us to trust Him with everything. May Jesus become our first priority again.

Serving Jesus is risky.

Stepping out of the norm is scary.

I surrender all.

Will you?

https://youtu.be/CQA9YtcN1UA Love Comes to Life!

Know that you are prayed for.

In His service,

deni A. fholer

 
We can do more. We can do better.



“Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from Your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me. Then I will teach transgressors your ways and sinners will turn back to You.”

Psalm 51: 10-13