Friday, November 23, 2012


8th Annual Holiday Helping Hands Project

Dear __________________________________!

I've talked to over 100 people in the last few weeks telling me how hard life is right now. They are worried about Christmas and how they are going to provide gifts to their kidlets or grandkids or nieces or nephews. They are concerned if they will have electricity or water or gas on Christmas. They have no idea what their "Christmas meal" will look like. One woman told me she had scrambled eggs last year because that's all she and her husband had in the house. 
 
Isaiah 58, In His Service was blessed to give some Thanksgiving meals yesterday. Mr. Smith lives alone and is a diabetic and has literally no furniture in his home - his only wish was to have a "good meal." Mrs. Smith lives alone but when her meal was delivered yesterday she was taking care of her young granddaughter who is mentally ill. She lives in a one bedroom apartment with her little dog she got from a rescue shelter. Although she worked all of her life she gets around in a wheelchair because of her health. She is so frustrated because she can't give to others and because she has to ask for help.  Then there's Ms. Smith who is a single Mom, working part-time because she can't find a full-time job. She has one child at home and a slew of grandchildren that she wants to give Christmas to.  When I asked her what she was going to do for Thanksgiving she said she and her Mom would spend the day together but they couldn't afford a turkey. She has grown kids who are married and are struggling. So, we gave a meal large enough for them all to get together and fellowship.   

There are hundreds of Mr. Smiths and Ms. Smiths in and around Tulsa. Senior adults living alone, grandparents raising grandkids, single Moms and kidlets, homeless families living in their cars, sons and daughters who are caregivers for chronically ill parent(s), working parents who can’t catch up. Every year the Holiday Helping Hands Project continues because of people like these. We don’t have a budget, we don’t put a cap on what we give, we don’t ask for ID’s, or check stubs; we don’t determine worthiness. We give in the name of Jesus and to the glory of God. Everyone needs Jesus! People are hurting and need to know God cares about them and hurting comes in all forms. We give to all members in the household.

If God brings a Mom, or a Dad, or a Grandma, or a widower or a family to Isaiah 58, In His Service, Inc., I know that He brought them to us because He loves them. He wants us to love on them and tell them we care because He first loved us. We start building relationships and trust.

My pastor, Deron Spoo defined evangelism this morning: ”Getting close to God, getting close to people and getting people close to God.” It makes sense and it doesn’t feel as daunting as “witnessing.”

You have an opportunity to shine for Jesus this Christmas and in doing so, you’ll be evangelizing. How cool is that? As every year in the past God has given me “His gift.” A gift for our families, individuals and homeless folks that the Holiday Helping Hands Project adopts. This year we are giving the Jesus Film and a bookmark with the plan of salvation. We also will include a brochure about Isaiah 58, In His Service and a card of invitation to First Baptist Church Tulsa!

If God leads you to dive in and join us…we need toys, clothes, gift cards, food and funds, etc. or you can adopt a family or senior or if God nudges you to make some deliveries, great! Everything will be covered in prayer and given to the glory of God. We don’t say “no” to those who ask for help even if it’s the day before Christmas. So, we will need you up to and including Christmas day.

Most importantly, please PRAY with us and for us. Pray in agreement that God will use the Jesus Film and the bookmark to soften hearts and change lives. Pray for salvation. Pray for God to bring every single person to us that needs Him and will listen to the song of Hope, Repentance, Forgiveness, and Salvation and say “YES” to Jesus. YOU ARE NEEDED! You are appreciated. You are loved. You are blessed. Help us bless others.

Are you in?

If you know someone who needs to be loved on this Christmas, please give them my cell phone number 918-260-1933.

In His service,

deni A. fholer
Isaiah 58, In His Service, Inc.
PO Box 521063
Tulsa OK 74152
918-260-1933
I58ihs@gmail.com
www.i58ihs.blogspot.org
501©3 nonprofit ministry

“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. 
                                              And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”
                                                                       Matthew 28:18-20

Pray and take action:

Poverty in Oklahoma reached a six-year high in 2011, according to data released last month by the U.S. Census Bureau.  The data revealed that more than one in six Oklahomans – and almost one in four children – now live in poverty. (OKPolicy.org)

About 29% (11.3 million) of non-institutionalized older persons live alone (8.1 million women, 3.2 million men)  (AOA)

Almost half of older women (47%) age 75+ live alone. (AOA)

About 485,000 grandparents aged 65 or more had the primary responsibility for their grandchildren who lived with them. (AOA)

The national rate of homelessness was 21 homeless people per 10,000 people in the general population.  The rate for veterans was 31 homeless veterans per 10,000 veterans in the general population in 2009. (MSNMedia.MSN.com)

In the United States, 1 in 3 people 65 years and older falls each year. (CDC)
Of those who fall, 20-30% suffer moderate to severe injuries that reduce mobility and independence, and increase the risk of premature death.  (CDC)

An estimated 800,000 individuals with Alzheimer’s (more than one in seven) live alone. (Alz. Assoc.)
Of those who live alone, up to half of them do not have an identifiable caregiver. (Alz. Assoc.)

In 2011, 15.2 million family and friends provided 17.4 billion hours of unpaid care to those with Alzheimer’s and other dementias – care valued at $210.5 billion. (Alzheimer’s Assoc.)

Oklahoma ranks first in the nation, tied with Arkansas, in the number of people who are “very low food insecure,” or hungry, at 7.5%.  Of households experiencing hunger, less than 20% are classified as unemployed.  More than 1/3 are disabled and/or retired, while the remaining 46% have at least one working member.  (CFBEO)

48% of households served at food pantries in Eastern Oklahoma report having to choose between paying for food and paying for utilities. (CFBEO)

45% of seniors report having to choose between paying for food and paying for medical care or medicine. (CFBEO)

36% had to choose between paying for food and paying rent or mortgage. (CFBEO)

34% had to choose between paying for food and paying for transportation. (CFBEO)

WE HAVE TO DO MORE.  WE HAVE TO DO BETTER.